Im am very proud to be a stay at home mum. I had my first child a month before I turned 33 and at that time was a serving member of the defence force. Leaving my job after the birth of my first child was not something I even had to think hard about, I couldnt imagine leaving him with anyone else all day. I have learned so much being a mum and Im sure its fine honed my organization skills. Hey all mums can multi task without even giving it a thought. I know some people feel its a less than admirable career choice but after the birth of two more beautiful boys I wouldnt change a thing. I guess one main thing I have learned from not having a "career" anymore is that you find your self worth from other areas of life. I no longer need a job to define who I am and for this Im truly grateful.