Lise- I'm using Match.com as well... I tried cyclingsingles.com but was only get winks from guys in Timbuktu... how can you "date" someone who lives 300 miles away???

KSH- you're probably right... I have no hope of kicking this guys butt tho He said this was only his second ride since June... he's been off the bike. When he said that I was pedaling my azz off and wondering how he rides when he's in shape then!

Trek- man, you're right on... doesn't matter which team... someone is either active and happy with ya or not and annoyed with you for being active! Long rides are time consuming... and an inactive partner may be annoyed that you're "prioritizing" biking and rides over them. It's tough to find that perfect harmony of physical fitness, mental and physical attraction and activity level... if it wasn't, heck, I wouldn't be posting about all my nutty dates... I'd be posting about my SO!

mtbdarby... first of all, as to men who are online when married... JERKS! UGH! I have a real issue with that... I've had lots of guys contact me who are "currently separated"... I have made it a point to acknowledge every person who contacts me and thank them for the interest... the separated guys get the "thank you and when you are DIVORCED let me know..." Yeah, I'm SO not into dating a "tweener"... As to dating your ex... why do you want to? Is it because you really want to be in a relationship with him again, or because you're lonely? Have the reasons for the initial break up been resolved and changed for the better? No need to answer here, just ask yourself that stuff OK? Who knows... maybe things will work out... just be sure why you want back in... I'm with ya... dating is TOUGH!

Allez girl... OMG... HUGE brownie points!!! Stunning in lycra... wow... now for me... I'm always more worried that the guys will be STUNNED by how I look in lycra... No way to hide any flaws with bike shorts on now is there? LOL... I figure if they like me in bike gear they're gonna LOVE how I look in a dress! Have fun at dinner... hope it's GREAT!