Another what to wear (wedding question)

[Selkie]

I'm late to the game, Crankin, but if you are still looking at options, this is lovely:

http://www1.talbots.com/online/brows...rSale=cat70010

It comes in petite. Check out their other dresses as there are more "formal" ones (silk sheaths). This one is cotton. Definitely doesn't "scream MOG" and it would show off your figure. If you look under accessories, I think they might have shawls/wraps. I get most of my clothes from Talbots because they are high quality and actually fit. Like you, I have a petite frame and have a hard time finding clothes that fit properly (another challenge, I'm too tall for petites so a lot of my slacks are unintended "ankle" pants).

I think your DIL is very fortunate to have you as a MIL..... You are a class act.

[Crankin]

I ordered the black dress from J Crew.
Mickchick, I do like that dress from Talbots; but I can't buy clothes there anymore. It seems like they subscribe to the "vanity sizing" thing and all of a sudden, their size 2s are huge on me and the petite x-smalls are like down to my knees. I used to buy stuff there, as it is one of the few stores that is close to where I live. But, I might go there to look for a wrap.
Thanks for the compliment. I swore I would not be an evil MIL, because mine is. I was never good enough for them, because I didn't call them mom and dad or kiss their azz. Oh, and then there was the stuff about being "too educated and a snob . What kind of Jewish mother says someone is too educated??? It's amazing my DH is as normal and mentally sane as he is,despite the fact I turned him into a snob..
My DIL is tough, but kind of sensitive and traditional. I am trying to respect that. She is in college for nursing now and I think she will be a great nurse. And she puts up with Scott's "weirdness." My other son's fiancee is an architect/artsy type who is working as a restaurant manager because she can't find a job in her field. She is from an extremely dysfunctional family and we try to give her the guidance she has never had. Talk about cognitive distortions! Ah, the power of your family of origin. Anyway, we are close and will have a lot of input into the planning of that wedding.

[Selkie]

Crankin---I noticed the sizing "drift" with the Talbots misses sizes. That's why I have to go exclusively with the petite (I used to be able to fit into misses size slacks/skirt, but now they are way too big). Now that you mention it, I am in a lower petite size than I was before.