Ah, bikerchick, you're giving me hope! He sounds like a cool guy, and you're cool for going at it with all you've got.

I've signed back up with match.com, and now can't access their website for love or money. I've spent untold hours talking with people in India, trying to resolve the computer problem. Don't know what the solution will be, but trying not to take it as a message from above that I'm not meant to date! So how are you meeting these guys? Somewhere in a post on here, the point was made about competitiveness on biking dates. I went on one biking date yeeeeears ago. I remember just riding as hard as I could, dropping my date. This was a bad move, date wise! It did make it clear to me that I didn't really like this guy, other than the "looking at you from across the room" kind of liking!

Good luck to you--keep us posted on your adventures!

Lise