Hmm... sounds like he needs lessons in communication. Part of the problem with women captaining and a guy stoker is the way the bikes are manufactured. The bigger compartment tends to always be in the front. Our bike is a small/small and Thom has about two more inches than I do. We've talked about switching off captaining, but I have saddle issues. Frankly, I don't want to do it because it's nice to sit on the back and watch the scenery, take pictures, yak with other riders and he's much better at up front communication than I am.

Veronica