Hey Teresa. I don't think I know you yet, but welcome back! When you're feeling overwhelmed by life this should be one of the first places to seek support. No one understands & empathises like the girls here. They're terrific...and that catholic guilt, it's a beauty isn't it? Always sneaks in to make you feel even worse. Fight it with logic, my dear. That'll help keep this demon at bay. I also believe you don't have to be doing a "Lance" in order to communicate with us girlies. Cheers & keep smiling. Yas. xxx