Girly bit troubles--shorts? saddle? both? neither?

[BleeckerSt_Girl]

Soreness is common when you don't ride regularly, and/or if you suddenly do a significantly longer ride than usual.
Every Spring I am plenty sore for the first few rides after a couple months of not riding at all in the dead of winter.

[OakLeaf]

It's hard to know what you mean by "discomfort" that isn't numbness, tingling or pain. Is it pressure? Heat, like a hot spot that occurs before a blister or chafing? Pulling, like maybe you're just using the pelvic floor muscles more when you have the contact with the saddle prompting you? Does it feel like it's concentrated in a small spot, or diffuse across your perineum?