I dunno, I was pretty regularly topless in the swimming pool at 11. And, when all three of my sons were about that age, they didn't really want to go into the pool without a shirt on!
I don't mind seeing children in all states of dress and undress (in a motherly way!), but posting them on the internet (like some of my kids' male friends have pics of themselves on FB and Myspace with no shirts on) just gives the pervs more material than they need.
Karen
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
insidious ungovernable cardboard