(((assumed name))) and (((cyclegoddess))),

I'm so sorry for what you are going through. As someone who went through a horrible divorce 2 years ago, I know how you are feeling right now.


PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE get your finances in order ASAP before you do anything else... Make copies of everything, even things you may not think are important. Down the road, it may save your a$$. Assumed name, I know you were not married yet, but it sounds like you and this man were together for a while and owned a home together. I don't know where you live, but if you live in a state where "common law marriage" is recognized, you may be basically going through a "divorce" legally speaking. Get a lawyer ASAP! I cannot express enough that getting a good lawyer will help you immensely.

Good luck and please know that I am thinking about you