I think all the responses are great. And some days I would be answering the same...but other days/weeks (like right now) I do struggle to "do it all". Or at least all that I want or expect out of me!

So no matter how good you are at letting things go...like dishes sitting over night (I definitely do that)...there are still times that if feels like (this is me talking): How do I work full time, do all my runs, hair appt., oh yeah really need a massage, overdue at the dentist--OMG my drivers license exprires and we are going to Disney for my birthday!!! I am tired just thinking. So I think part of my problem is I try and WANT to do all those things.

Again, good advise and support here, but in reality I think many of us bounce between "it is ok to let things go" and the "OMG how can I do it all". At least IMO that is how it is.