falling child (long vent of sorts)

[pinkbikes]

I agree with all that has been said. My DD is 11yo now and has been riding bikes on and off for her whole life. She currently has a Trek 3700, so not a particularly expensive MTB, which she has had for about a year. This is heaps lighter than her last bike though (a BigW special) and this made a huge difference to her willingness to ride, especially up hills! She took to gears like a duck to water (not sure how) and has ridden a few trails with us but does turn into a bit of a wuss when things get rough. I wouldn't dream of putting her into clipless pedals on the trail yet.

That being said, she has twice ridden on the tandem with me for a 9day tour and has shown a keen interest in growing into my road bike! At first on the tandem we had flat pedals for her, but quickly replaced them with toeclips because her feet would slip off the pedals if I changed cadence and she had difficulty getting them back on the pedals before they clunked her in the shins.

This year we replaced the toeclips with clipless pedals (spd with the plastic surround) because we had a spare pair in the cupboard and I found a really cheap pair of shoes online. It really made it a quicker process getting on and off the bike without all the fiddling with straps while I stood there balancing the bike!

It was incredible how quickly she has picked up using the clipless pedals and I think riding the tandem on the road with that extra element of support and security from me helped smooth the learning process. She is now very keen to have her flats on her MTB replaced with the clipless pedals for everyday riding (not on the trails though yet).

I will probably put our other spare set of spds onto her MTB and put the flats off the MTB onto my roadbike so that she can get used to the roadbike without clips first. When I think she is safe on the roadbike with clips I will put spd pedals on it - partly because they take less muscle for little girls to engage and disengage than road (spd-sl) clipless pedals, but also because then I only have to keep one set of bike shoes up to her growing feet!!

So... if there is a message in all this, it would be...

- Don't rush the trails. A few easy loops like you're doing is great.
- Don't rush the pedals. I figure there is no point having clipless pedals until she can use the gears well. If she's stopping all the time to change gears then there is probably little point in having to clip in and out all the time. When she is confident in the gears the desire for the pedals will come soon enough (to be like you and Dad). I think you're right on the money!
- When you do get the pedals, try them in a more forgiving environment than the trails!! I held the bike up (another bike was on the trainer) and had DD clip in and out dozens of times before we went outside to give it a real ride. And I figure a nice grassy park is a good spot for a gumby stack!

[Selkie]

I'm not a mom to humans (just dogs) and it's been a long time since I did a gig as a nanny in college, so I'm definitely not qualified to give you any "kid" advice.

I'm 46 years old and a very experienced rider with excellent road bike handling skills. However, when I'm on my MTB and am off road, I ride with one foot clipped. I'm not ashamed to admit it, either!!!!! Broken clav, multiple broken toes, and a broken elbow are enough bone fractures in my lifetime.

[Veronica]

Well, I think it's good that he has her using clipless already on the road. They shouldn't be any harder to unclip than ski bindings and I don't hear any outrage about little kids skiing and snowboarding.

I think back to what MP has always said about riding with her daughter PP - keep it fun. Does the girl want to push through this challenge of using clipless off road or is it demoralizing? When I think about the 33 kids in my room, at least one or two of them would want to push through because they are stubborn little cusses and like a challenge. Most would say, "This isn't fun and I'm done," if they were doing it with their families. But I bet if they were riding with me, 30 of them would stick it out.

What have I learned from 17 years of teaching - kids behave differently with different adults in their lives. With mom and dad they can be whiny little babies and I never see that in the classroom. The girl may see you as someone she wants to emulate and she's willing to put up with a few knocks to be like you. I see that sort of perseverance as good thing. Just keep the trails easy and short.

Veronica

[kenyonchris]

Thanks ya'll! This was never intended to judge him...or criticize, I hope it didnt come across that way, he is the sweet, proud dad I love. I know he would never put her in harms way. But he is a guy, a strong rider, and he doesn't know what it is like to simply be unable (physically)to do something. He's a guy. I started to think I should have stopped being a weenie about clipping in from the get go. I think it would be a shame for her to be put off because of the clips, because he wants nothing more than to ride with his daughter.

I'll talk to him about it, I was just looking for information from other *women* who had started mountain biking...beginning clipped in or no? It sounds like no (as I did) and you guys have given me lots of good reasons why. It would break my heart to see her not ride or not enjoy it. Ill talk to him about it from the perspectives you guys have give me and we will go from there!