Hi! I'm new. This is my maiden post!

I was having trouble with my wrists as well. I had my bike fitted just yesterday.

Turns out by mounting the cleats further back, this brought my weight back off my arms (try standing on your toes and leaning forward - all your weight goes on your arms). By raising the seat, and moving my seat back, brought my centre of gravity back, and now my wrists are in neutral position, instead of being "cocked up." Too much weight (from being forward) and at the wrong angle was really messing me up.

Fixed now. Feels much better.