Hi, good luck with the saddle search.

I have a Lithia on my "SUV" bike and a Ruby on my road bike. To be honest, I don't "notice" the Ruby at all when riding. After some miles on the Lithia, I do notice it some, probably the gelynish of it.

I was in one of the LBS recently and could swear the new Lithia's are softer than mine.

Both saddles, for me, are free from girly bit discomfort.

I like the Lithia on the SUV cuz I may not always wear padded shorts or liners, just jump on and go. Otherwise, I would probably swap out for the Ruby.