I love love love my Selle Anatomica Titanico and am of the opinion that those folks having issues with them are due to the saddle not being adjusted properly. Tom at Selle-Anatomica is very helpful and concise when offering suggestions if you email him and tell him exactly where it hurts and what kind of hurt - ie. bruising/chafing/etc.

Also according to the directions, to obtain a wider seating (sitbone) area, you must loosen the tension. Also try lowering your seat a little bit to get more weight onto your pedals and off your butt.

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