I finally developed that "#&* them if they can't take a joke" attitude. For me it was wearing a tennis skirt over my bike shorts that helped me. Even when I was tiny( oh so long ago) I never looked good in bike shorts, I'm short and stocky. The skirt just gave me that little bit of extra confidence and coverage. Life is to short to worry about what other people think. I think we have to learn to be our own best friend.