Relationship/trust probs...

[Trek420]

I don't have any advice, it's hard to know what to do, what will work for another person. I do send hugs. Lots of wisdom here on this board, Knott and others here are very wise.

Yes, his saying he registered on a swingers sounds like total BS. If he's curious there are books on the subject. If he's so curious go read about it and talk to YOU.

But doing this behind your back, that's not good.

I've never been in the same situation, been lied to in a relationship yes but not the same as this. However I can imagine how I'd feel if this happened to me and I'd be pretty ticked off.

What others have said I'd make sure that you're financially and emotionally safe.