That's just horrible, and would be a deal breaker for me. Take evasive action. Don't have sex with him. Get your money together--whether it's a savings account in your own name or whatever you can do--just put some money aside for yourself in case you do find out he's been cheating. The lying is not going to change in my opinion. If he'd keep this from you, what else is he hiding? Don't give him any more of your life than is necessary.

I really hope there are not kids involved. I feel for you.

Karen