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    Quote Originally Posted by Like2bike2 View Post
    He has shrugged this off and gets mad whenever I bring it up. Um, hello- I have every reason to be mad.

    I have caught my husband lying a lot over the years and I am having a hard believing him now.
    A little time apart might be good. I was in a similar-ish situation once, and being in the same house made it very hard to think straight. You packing up you and yours and going to a relative's or friend's for that week isn't going to change his behaviour (if he's a cheater, he'll cheat whether you are there or not). And it won't change what-ever he is planning to do in Vegas.

    But it might give you a bit of clear space to think, and a little support with the little details of life while you think.

    (And it keeps you from stewing quite so much in your concern about what he's doing while he's gone.)

    Sent you a PM to this account.
    Last edited by KnottedYet; 09-14-2009 at 06:41 PM.
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