how long to "wear in" a new bike? (aka Help the saddle is hurting my girly bits!)

[Cataboo]

Your sitbones will toughen up...

However, your girly bits up front are unlikely to... you can tilt the saddle down a little bit, but what that's going to cause is for you to slide forward, then you'll put more weight on your wrists and your wrists may hurt.

I don't know if it'll help a bit to slide your saddle forward on the rails since it sounds like you're sitting a bit forward on it? You do want your weight to rest on your sitbones, and not on your girlie bits.

A saddle with a cut out area in front is best for girlie bits - does your saddle have a cut out?

Blister on hand - are you holding too tight? where are you holding on the bike?

I guess if you post pictures of yourself riding the bike, some of us might try to comment on fit (which you should take with a grain of salt)