another happy marriage here, 31 years. It didn't start happy, and I actually threw him out more than once, but people can learn, and people can change, and two people committed to having a good healthy relationship can make a crapshoot marriage into a wonderful marriage.

Neither of us are perfect, we argue, make mistakes, he yells (I rarely yell) but we together continue to try to make our marriage better. It's a work in progress, it's like a treasured plant, or even a baby. you have to take care of it EVERY SINGLE DAY.