Bad husband! No nookie!

[Tri Girl]

I always go by, is it really worth potentially causing an argument.

That's the standard I live by. I admit that I'm highly obsessive/compulsive/anal about many things. Things I wasn't obsessive about when DH and I started dating/living together. Things back then that didn't bug me bug me now. It's not his fault I've become a little weird about stuff. If it's worth getting into an argument, I do. If it isn't, I don't. I figure he puts up with a lot of crap from me, too, so I need to put up with his crap as well. Plus, I'm not breaking in a new model at this point. The only way out is in a casket... but I hope that's not for a very long time.
Of course- if he does something over the top that breaks trust/damages our financial future/cheats, etc... all bets are off. I'm going for the jugular. There are certainly many situations that are unacceptable.

I like the story of the old woman with the bite marks on the tongue story. Hee hee. So true.