need opinions about "stand over height"

[Yelsel]

The men's standover height is about 0.2" lower for the same center-top tube height (the seat-tube angle is slightly steeper on the women's bike).

Drop down in height one size on the men's, get almost an inch of clearance. The top tube would be 5 mm / 0.5 cm *shorter* than the women's. You could try it and see how it feels. With a relatively long torso, you probably will fit better on a men's bike.

(And there is an error in the geometry -- the standover height for the M / 50 cm Dash bike should be 31.2", not 32.2".)