I LOVE sharing the bike with a guy. Seeing new places, new experiences. Finding romantic places to dine, shared memories and adventure. It sounds like guy #2 is one that's open to a more complete relationship with you, if that's what you want! I've dated someone like #1. I was just 'filling time' for him. I'm sure he says exactly what he means. He knows you deserve to be happy, and he must know he can't be that for you. Just my thoughts...