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  1. #1
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    Aug 2008
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    Chicagoland
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    Hi ((((Amanda)))),

    First of all, I want to say I'm sorry for you and your family's loss... It's never easy to lose a loved one...

    I know exactly what you mean about life's curveballs... I lost my job 2 weeks ago. I loved my job and was very content to stay for a long while. I've never said that about a job before, so it felt like a shot to the gut when I found out I was being laid off...

    So basically I'm going through the same thing, just for a different reason. It's been miserably hot here too- in the 90s but w/ humidity, so I understand how you feel about not wanting to ride your bikes...

    We will get through it... There's lots of good advice already shared on this thread and I really don't have much to add, but I wanted you to know that you are not the only one feeling this way.
    Andrea

    1988 Bridgestone mixte
    2002 Trek 2200
    2011 Surly Long Haul Trucker

  2. #2
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    Jul 2007
    Location
    Rhode Island
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    I am sorry for your loss. Alzheimer's stinks. My Dad is stage 3 and my FIL died with Alzheimer's.

    I want you to repeat after me:

    "I give myself permission to take time off the bikes, to rest, to recover, and to meditate and grieve and think of all of the things my nan taught me."
    I can do five more miles.

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Jul 2008
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    ((((Hugs))))

    So sorry for your loss. Allow yourself time to grieve, you deserve it!

  4. #4
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    Location
    Arlington, VA
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    Norsegoddess---So sorry to hear about your dad.

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