I'm new to cycling, only been doing it a month. I finally broke down and got these and find them really uncomfortable. The padding seems to be in the wrong places. It's pushed way to far forward basically and it puts extra pressure on my genitalia which makes it burn. I need some recommendations for good shorts in brands that make 2xl. There is a very limited selection it seems. Soon enough I'll be down into regular sizes but I need the shorts for longer distances. Any help would be appreciated.