My son was in that age group when I drove an Element.

I loved it.

The "suicide doors" aggravated me at first but I got used to them. In fact, they're somewhat of an advantage at keeping the child "contained" until you want him to get out.

After I traded up to a Ridgeline, I kept reaching to open the back door the wrong way.

Yes, wind is a big deal. Very, very bike and camping friendly.

I had 4WD but there wasn't enough ground clearance for the off-roading that I do.