I have an Element and love it. However, I also raised two sons (they're 24 and 27 now). I seriously doubt I would have liked the rear doors with children getting in and out of the back continuously. They aren't a hassle with no kids but it would have grated on me when they were the age of yours!
Susan
Try not. Do or do not... there is no try.
Yoda
2004 Airborne WASP (road)/Selle An-Atomica
2010 Bike Friday New World Tourist (commuter)/Selle An-Atomica
2010 Bike Friday Pocket Rocket Pro/Selle An-Atomica