I agree with all that's been said. But, I grew up in Alabama in the 60's and 70's and, while raised well, I've seen racism and hatred in person like many of you only witnessed on TV.

It is much better today (albeit not gone). I look at my kids and their friendships spanning racial and ethnic lines like nothing we've experienced before as a country. Sure, racism exists, but it's getting old and will eventually die.

I'm sorry for your experience and agree that you should confront it head on.

Just my 2 cents...