Happy Birthday to you.

I understand how you feel about turning 40. I wanted a party or some sort of recognition and never recieved it beyond the average. My DH did not do anything spectacular. I was bummed at the time. Perhaps more so because my older brother had mentioned in passing that his wife put something in the local paper as to his being 40. There might have been a family party too.

Under the circumstances at this house, all celebrations are played down somewhat-or perhaps a lot. After I had done my time (working that is) at a local hospital, I have had to downplay holidays and other weekends or occasions of importance because I would miss them due to work.

I like your suggestion of having a TE getogether. Or your suggestion of the following:

Birthday cake in paniers, with ice cream made in one of those backpacking roll around ice cream makers?

What could be better?

Congrats and have a great year!
Red Rock