I'm having the same problem and have posted a couple of questions on this topic. I even contemplated a hornless saddle but the consensus on that idea seems to be pretty much thumbs down from everyone I've talked to. I'm on my third saddle in just over a year (a Terry Butterfly). It's by far the best one I've tried so far, but I'm still having issues. I think part of my problem is the chamois in my bike shorts; I buy good shorts, but the bulkiness of the chamois is really bothersome. Someone recommended tri shorts; thinner pad, not so bulky. I am also going to purchase a pair of SheBeest shorts...the chamois technology sounds like it's superior and in my mind worth a shot. Too bad we have to spend a ton of money experimenting until we find just the right combination. I am also going to do a few adjustments to my handlebar and saddle positioning this weekend; even though I've been through a couple of bike fittings, I still think maybe the stretch forward is creating some of my problems. Let me know if you get it figured out!!!

Debbie