Cali, I feel your pain. I am (hopefully) near the end of a VERY frustrating run of events along these lines. It's like nobody seems to care. Or, rather the "action" person just goes his own pace and cannot be prodded to get things moving. I've tried to be the "patient girl", but that's running thin.

I hope things are resolved for you and your husband soon. And I hope it's all worth it in the end.