Focusing solely on women for one brief thread on a web forum doesn't have to constitute the creation of a battle line. It simply means we had a discussion about women, by women. We don't have to feel bad or that we've excluded others or think it means we're not for equality. If we can't first ground ourselves in who we are and what our needs are then we approach the other half of the population lacking clear insight, again (as is so often the case) looking to their needs and responses first.