There was a rainbow here yesterday after a huge thunderstorm- very symbolic and hopeful.
My sincere thanks to everyone who wrote sweet encouragement on this thread.
I happen to have a little 1950's vintage Steiff stuffed grey tabby kitten, and I put it on the top of the couch in Lydia's favorite spot to watch over all of us to make sure we be Good. It looks kind of silly but it makes us smile when we walk by, instead of seeing the empty space.

Thanks smilingcat, I always smile at your avatar picture. It's a kitty world...we just live in it.