I seem to be the odd one out, but I don't find bibs to make that much of a difference. On long rides I pick bibs because it reduces the chances of a stomach cramp after eating+drinking on-bike a little, but to be honest I find the bathroom issue to be a big hassle. Maybe it's my love of coffee, and yes I was bad at doing those squeezy exercises after giving birth, but when I have to pee, I have to pee FAST. And then I really hate struggling with the shoulder straps, especially because the climate here usually means I'm wearing at least one snug sweaty long-sleeved layer on top.

Most of my regular shorts are quite comfy, the bibs are slightly better, but not an enormous difference to my mind.