
Originally Posted by
jobob
(btw, I did my first brevet ride at age 47

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Mine was at 46 
I've started both of mine on my own, but found some folks to ride with in the dark on the second one. Just knowing your boyfriend is in the area will be comforting. Perhaps ask him to wait for you at controls? Or, ask if you can draft them - don't take pulls and save your energy for hanging on. If it's a flat route, maybe you can finish before it gets dark.
For 3 days, I get to part of a thousand other journeys.