Bad inflator + no apathetic cyclists = short ride

[Mr. Bloom]

Guess how many were polite enough to ask if I was okay? One.

Come to Indiana...you would have been overwhelmed with the assistance offered

[mayanorange]

Come to Indiana...you would have been overwhelmed with the assistance offered

Maybe that's why I expect to be overwhelmed with help- my parents are midwesterners.

So I solved the inflator issue- works perfectly fine if you use a schrader adapter. All these things that say they work with both valve types just lie...

[Ana]

So what is the proper etiquette for asking others if they need assistance?

I am a relatively new rider and do not go more than 7-ish miles away from home. Oftentimes, I do not usually take a frame pump and sometimes I forget my multitool. I usually remember my extra tube but I am not sure why I would take that but not a pump....

Aside from my dangerous optimism about flats and other mechanical disasters, I feel that the knowledge and equipment I possess in regard to those stopped at the side of the road is minimal at best (i.e. watching them repair their bicycle or calling for assistance).

In addition, as a young woman who rides alone, I hesitate to stop sometimes...if I never made it home, it would take my housemates at least a couple days to figure out I was missing...

Is it polite to ask the people stopped at the side of the road (who usually have nicer stuff than I do) if I can assist them even though my knowledge and equipment is limited?

[MartianDestiny]

Sorry to hear that Mayanorange.

You weren't in the Bay Area where you? When I got run off the road I got passed by 40+ cyclists with one offer of help as well. My front wheel was obviously flat and damaged (I had everything I needed except duct tape to do a temp repair on the sidewall that had shredded), brake levers obviously torqued (just needed someone with the strength to fix them), and obviously limping with a trail of blood...

I lost faith in humanity for 2.5 of the 3 mile walk home that day until someone finally stopped. When he couldn't fix it he offered to ride the 5 miles to his house, get his car, drive back, just to drive me the last .5 miles home. I declined, but he emailed me the next day to make sure I'd made it ok (turned out we worked together!). There are good people in the world!


Ana:
What I tend to do if I see someone that may have a medical or mechanical issue is slow down a little and ask "ya ok?" or "need something?" as I'm approaching. Most times people have it covered and simply say "good, thanks" and wish me a nice ride.

I have passed people in odd, poorly lit, poorly traveled areas because I just didn't feel safe about it being alone and a girl. Normally though I don't feel unsafe about it. Obviously if you aren't comfortable in the situation don't put yourself in it.

[mayanorange]

I just realized I confused apathy with empathy... happens to the best of us I suppose!

Boston area, which is relatively rider friendly... I thought.

[Crankin]

Gwen, I am sorry that happened to you.
I have been on that ride and they were not too friendly. When I realized I couldn't keep up, my husband turned around and waited for me, to go with the group doing the shorter ride. They sort of told him he was being silly...
I like riding with the Wednesday Wheelers, because they keep everyone together and it is social, but I do not like CRW rides on the whole, even though I belong. Last year we did the Spring metric and there were sooooo many ill mannered and unsafe riders. I crashed because someone stopped short in front of me, causing the woman behind me to crash, too. She was injured and her bike was messed up. The guys kind of laughed it off; if I hadn't had my "leader" first aid stuff in my bag and Steve hadn't had his tools, she would have been left there.
I always ask, "Do you need anything?"

[Tri Girl]

I had that happen one time. I was cycling around our big lake where LOTS of runners/cyclists/walkers/rollerbladers go and I had a flat. I didn't have what I needed- my CO2 pump broke mid-pump, and it was obvious that I needed help (had my bike upside down, waved at a couple people to stop but none did) and only one person asked if I needed help. She was old and on an old, cool steel bike with no repair supplies.
At least she asked.

Humanity is good. You just chose a bad day where only the selfish were riding.

[Mr. Bloom]

Maybe that's why I expect to be overwhelmed with help- my parents are midwesterners.

How ironic...by Bostonian cousins used to try teaching me how to be rude

Mr Silver:

Where in Indiana are you??

I commute between the Evansville area (where Silver lives until the kids graduate) and Bloomington. So, I have windy, flat corn fields on the weekends and serious hill training during the week.