Moving forward....

[Karma007]

You've been with this man for 14 years? Does she like him? That'd be very important to me.

Let her help you with the wedding, especially where it involves her.

Congratulations!!

Karen

Thanks everyone! Boyfriend and I have a complicated relationship (to try and make a long story not quite so long) we met 14 years ago and while we dated off and on the timing for moving forward was never quite right. I evenutally met (and married) someone else. A twist of fate brought boy and I back together and will remain so. I could not be happeir. It was a twisty road, but worth it! He thinks it's destiny. I say he got lucky

I think girl child likes him. Honestly she's so wrapped up in her own world right now, I don't think it'll be a huge thing. Boyfriend and I already live together, and with her living w/her father, it won't affect her day to day much. I'm going too see if she's free for dinner tonight, or shopping Saturday, so we have a change to talk alone.

I will definatley ask for her help in the planning, her thoughts, opinions. It'll be small and quiet (read inexpensive- we're saving for a house!)


Thanks for your warm wishes and thoughtfull advice!