Getting married- ? do I change my name

[Grog]

Women just need a copy of the marriage certificate.

My understanding is that men typically need a court order.

In British Columbia and in most places in Canada (except Quebec where neither men nor women change their name) to my knowledge it's the same procedure for men and women. (Or men and men or women and women since same-sex marriage is permitted.)

I would be surprised if it was different in the USA as for civil matters the system is usually the same. Any better info from South-of-49th?