Welcome Snp... Hope you get into biking. A great sport to do with a loved one.

Welcome the chance to learn. Go with the bf to the LBS and listen to him talk to the sales folks. Check out the bikes and ask about components, understand what they do and why, what's better. I say if you have an interest, get educated. Many a poor chick who fails to learn the rope gets taken by a BF and the LBS because she left it up to the guys. i.e. don't be or act stupid!

As to a WSD bike, they are specifically made for women whose proportions are long legs, short upper bodies and arms. Bike fit has more to do with reach than "stand-over". When properly seated on the saddle, can you reach the brakes and shifters? If it's a big stretch you might need a WSD bike. If you have long arms as well as legs, the "man" bike (did we not already have this discussion on another thread?) might be the ticket. Typically, the regular, i.e. non-WSD bikes have better components for the money. Don't ask me why.

Great way to start is borrow a bike. Try to find someone close to your size and give it a whirl. Start out slowly. Try bike paths, the local beach, park whatever, so you feel comfortable just riding then go out on the street. Make sure your bf explains road safety and proper hand signals etc. Spend some time reviewing this website - lots of discussion re clothing, shoes, gloves, saddles, etc.

Good luck - have fun - get addicted like the rest of us.

PS: I can talk bike components and mechanics with the guys, doesn't make me any less of a chick!