I was a "sorority girl" from '67 to '71. I think if you read Mr. Silver's post, you can conclude that it was/is more important in the South. I loved it. Still communicate with some of my sisters. In spite of the "swaps" and other parties, grades were emphasized. Pledges had to attend supervised study hall. I loved living in the house with 3 meals a day except on Sat. and Sun. But I agree that it's not for everybody.