Too Chicken To Go On Longer Rides

[Biciclista]

maybe join a group ride? That would really help. you're not all alone far away from everything you know and love you're with a bunch of friends, some of which are wise and confident.

[PamNY]

All the above advice worked for me. Just add a mile or two to your weekend rides, and you won't even notice the increase. A group ride can be a great confidence-booster.

When I first started, I brought along everything I could possibly need -- food, water, extra layers, phone, money, you name it. I also took rest breaks.

Pam

[Aint Doody]

I have a friend who rides until she's "half tired" and then goes home. It has gotten longer over the years. (I don't know how to decide when I'm half tired, however.)

[sundial]

I have a friend who rides until she's "half tired" and then goes home.

That was my method when I started cycling. Worked like a charm.

[indigoiis]

Do a group ride with a no-drop group or your local bike shop. The miles fly by when you are riding together with other folks of your same level. That's how I learned to do it!

[Possegal]

what also worked for me was adding miles by doing multiple loops of a smaller loop around my neighborhood. I mapped out a loop that is maybe 5 miles, but at any given time, I'm no more than a couple miles from my house. I increased by doing more within that loop, but yet never being more than a couple miles from home. If I felt I bit off more than I could chew, I was close to home.

I really understand the mental road-block into thinking I can't go that far. But if you increase in small increments, and then try doing that where you can bail out if you need to, I'm sure you'll be fine!

[wackyjacky1]

what also worked for me was adding miles by doing multiple loops of a smaller loop around my neighborhood. I mapped out a loop that is maybe 5 miles, but at any given time, I'm no more than a couple miles from my house.

Awesome idea!

I skipped out on a great group ride yesterday led by a friend - 24 miles, no speed pressure - because I was afraid people would hear me panting.

LOL, I worry about that too! Heck, I've been known to hold my breath when passing pedestrians so they won't hear me gasping for air. Oy!

Apparently I'm just a big grab-bag full of insecurities, LOL.

Seriously, though, thanks to everyone for all the good advice.

[Miranda]

These are all great suggestions that I have done most of. I'm still in the "too chicken to group/club ride"...yet. But, that one I am changing this season.

My normal spin I have time for is a 20mi loop. There is the most beautiful postcard picture perfect farmhouse almost dead in the middle. I tell myself... "I have to ride far enough to see how the flowers are doing"...

This ladie's yard is SO amazing. One day I saw her gardening and turned around to tell her so. I know she thought I was crazy. But, oh well.

The actual "dead center" is a cemetary. That's my turn the loop point.

I have stopped there before and had the snack under a tree with the dead folks.

Also, as a gym roadie pal pointed out... if he runs out of water, cemetaries have water. There is norally an outside facuet that peeps use for the gravestone flower vases. Interesting tip.

Just keep at it... you can do it.

[Triskeliongirl]

The more I think about it, the more that I think the Wheelmen Rider Education Program would be perfect. I know they start real slow, and its a great program. Its not expensive, and includes a wheelmen membership which will quickly pay for itself in LBS discounts. More info. is here: http://www.sawheelmen.com/education.htm

[tctrek]

These are all great suggestions that I have done most of. I'm still in the "too chicken to group/club ride"...yet. But, that one I am changing this season.

I broke the ice in doing my first group ride by riding at the back of the pack. I was more afraid of riding shoulder to shoulder with someone than anything else. So, I didn't mind being last... I let everyone take off ahead of me! I didn't draft anyone or join a pace line. I just rode my ride and it was great!

[wackyjacky1]

When I first started, I brought along everything I could possibly need -- food, water, extra layers, phone, money, you name it.

LOL!

I swear it's just a mental thing -- it's not like I'm exhausted after 10 miles. I guess I just lack confidence. Weird. You're right, though, I should just try to add a mile or so and build up slowly.

A group ride is a good idea, too, but that opens up a whole other Pandora's box of insecurities for me (I'm too slow, I won't be able to keep up, I'm too fat, etc., etc. ). Good gawd, I sound like I need therapy just to ride a bike...

[Blueberry]

Oh, I'm right there with you for some odd reason this year. I've done long rides, I've done group rides. I skipped out on a great group ride yesterday led by a friend - 24 miles, no speed pressure - because I was afraid people would hear me panting. I started having nightmares about not being able to finish the MS ride (I've not DNF'd and I adore doing them), but the nightmares have messed with my head. I gotta get past this - but it's hard.

CA