Thanks for all your insight and help.

My shorts are not super tight but the pad is pretty thick. I ride again tomorrow and will try my DH's Zoot shorts that have a thinner pad but not triathlon thin. I think this could be a bit part of the problem as my thighs are not thin and do rub on the seat

I have a pretty aggressive triathlon fit but even get sores when I am not in the aerobars. I think I will tweak my seat down a bit also like another degree. It is the most comfortable one I have had yet for my girlie parts - I so want it to work - sigh. I will also make sure that nothing has been shifted on my bike measurement wise.

I will let you know how it all pans out. Now I am on the prowl for some better shorts - thanks for suggesting some brands with thinner pads. You guys rock!!