Lisa said it so much better than I could. I'm so sorry the news isn't better.

I didn't want to say it going into the weekend because you were clear how much you and your DH needed the break, and there's nothing wrong with that. But, my Xiao Shieung died at the vet's while they were trying to save him. We were actually in the car on the way to visit when we got the call. There were many things surrounding his death that I felt horrible guilt for, but that's definitely one of them.

Bring her home, let her feel your love surround her, be with her when the time comes.

Hugs to you all.