(((((((Amanda & Maggie)))))))

I'm sure that you and Maggie are more important to your DH than his race.

And you might be surprised about your boss, too, I know I've gotten outpourings of sympathy from males I really didn't expect to (and I've also had females repeatedly express that they felt no attachment to their pets, fwiw). If you're not getting anything done at work anyhow, can you take a personal day?

Keeping the prayers coming.