Oh man. ((((((((smurf))))))) I wish I had some words of wisdom for you, but I don't, only sympathy. What a bunch of ***holes. Can you at least find another club to ride with? These guys would probably totally shun you then, but being ostracized sounds better than what they're putting you through now. It's obviously sexual harrassment, but if they're not being overtly sexual about it, there's probably nothing you can do.