Shimano Ultegra for small hands shifters
handle bars Cinelli.. but there are lots of small ones out there.

I was fitted before i even decided which bike to get...the lbs owner is VERY knowledgable (his #1 employee's wife is tiny) *besides...this is the 4th high-end bike my fiancee has purchased from him!!!! i would hope you LBS could order small parts for you...it is sooooo important for your bike to fit you!!!! if you need more info i will be happy to add to this tonight when i can actually look at the components and give you model #"s