I had a similar problem when I started road bike searching, only difference is I'm long-legged, short-armed and 6ft tall - which means none of the wsd bikes are big enough and most of the men's are too long in the reach. It's a nightmare. Funnily enough, both my bikes have ended being Trek's, after testing loads of others... (only picking the road bike up from the shop on Saturday, so can't comment on what it will be like in the long run), but there appears to be something in the trek geometry that agrees with my akward proportions...
One day, I'm going to buy a cottage in a small village and become its idiot!