Quote Originally Posted by BleeckerSt_Girl View Post
You must now stop daydreaming about having a romance with him. Dreaming about a one way romance is sometimes addictive in a weird way, but it's not going to make you feel good.
I SO agree with you that they can be addictive. And like any "drug," they prevent us from fully engaging in the world. I know I've held onto several crushes long past their "sell by" date as a way to avoid really putting myself out there.

I will admit, too, that most of the guys I've had unreciprocated crushes on were all kinds of wrong for me, and I'm thankful now that my affections were not returned.