Man & Woman Just Friends?

[ClockworkOrange]

Hi RP

There are so many thoughts that go through my mind on this one, I dare say I shall forget the most important!

Probably incorrect but I get the feeling you are quite young and not a stick insect, perhaps like many of us, or rather in your own words on another thread ............."Or am I just super self conscious and paranoid?

I am an old biddy and speak from experience, unfortunately it was not until I hit 50 years of age I found my current partner who is also my soul mate. I now realise I had been married for 18 years but not in love.

However, when we met, he did not want a relationship, nor did I 'really'..........or did I? Also I remembering him saying he would never ever say he loved anybody, well that changed too.

At least your friend is honest but that does not mean if the chemistry is right, things might happen. You do not say how long you have been friends.

I often say to younger friends of mine who are looking for a relationship, finding somebody always happens when you least expect it, so maybe don't look too hard.

Mind you saying all this, if it is making you unhappy, then what's the point.

Hey, nearly the New Year, it will be a good year for you.

Oh yes, another thing since getting older, the majority of guys who I talk to, prefer a girl to cuddle and not a bag of bones. Even I get all paranoid about my size and my partner always says, he would not want me to be slim, or maybe he is just humouring me.

Clock