We have 5 feral girl kitties who hang around our house. They have all been spayed. I started feeding the first one in 2003. We didn't think about spaying her until after she had three kittens in our backyard.We got a trap and the deal is, if you eat our food you get neutered. Since then we've probably neutered 15 cats or so. All of the regulars will let me touch them now - except Curly Kitten. Some of them actually seem to enjoy petting and will rub up against me before going to eat.
Oh... and they all have really inventive names. There's Mama Kitty, the first cat. She had Gray Kitty, Black Kitty (who disappeared) and MC (Mama Colored.) Gray Kitty was tough to trap and she had Black Kitten and Goggles (who died in our backyard.) I actually ended up picking up Gray Kitty and stuffing her into the trap to get her to the vet. Pretty Eyes kind of looks like Mama and MC, but I don't know if she is related. Curly Cat has a curly tail and Curly Kitten looks like a miniature Curly Cat. We also have Evil Boy. He's been neutered and comes around once a week or so. He torments the girls, except Pretty Eyes, hence the name.
We've had Big Paws, White Tip, Grumpy, Noisy and probably some others that I'm forgetting.
Veronica